The Tradition of Rugby Rivalries Without Hate

In the context of the Six Nations Rugby tournament, one often wonders which nation hates the others the most. However, what we find is a rich tapestry of rivalry, respect, and national pride—none of which manifests in hate or animosity. Historical rivalries exist, yet players and fans alike greet each other with good sportsmanship, exemplified by handshakes at the end of a match.

Historical and Modern Perspectives

The idea of hatred within the Six Nations is largely a myth fueled by the media. According to ex-Captain of Scotland, Peter Brown, no sensible person ‘hates’ another country. This sentiment is echoed by many, including those who have dedicated their careers to the sport.

While there is a mutual dislike among Celtic nations towards England, it is more accurately described as a rivalry rather than hatred. The term ‘Auld Enemy’ has been used to describe these tensions, but it is a cultural and historical arrangement rather than an expression of hate.

Specific National Perceptions

From a Scottish perspective, the Welsh are often perceived as more arrogant, and the French as a nation are viewed with similar sentiment. An Englishman, when asked about his national rivalries, admits to the Scots holding us in lower esteem, while the Irish respect us the most—possibly due to a game during the Troubles. However, this is a complex interplay of history and sportsmanship.

Media Influence and Sportsmanship

Former players and coaches touch upon the role of media in stirring up tensions. Bill McLaren, the unbiased and knowledgeable commentator of the past, is mentioned with fondness, highlighting the need for fair and respectful coverage. While some media figures may adopt an arrogant or undermining attitude, it is a small minority that does not reflect the general ethos of the game.

On the pitch, the rivalry is intense, but it is a game and the rules of the game permit and even encourage certain tactics. Arrogance, used to antagonize or intimidate opponents, is a part of the sport. However, it is a calculated strategy rather than a reflection of personal animosity.

Off the pitch, the tradition of sportsmanship is seen in public houses and social media. Former teammates often engage in friendly banter, or 'sledging,' without any underlying hate. This camaraderie transcends national boundaries, and even after decades away from home, these bonds remain strong.

What we find in the Six Nations is a rich tradition of competitive yet respectful rivalries. Hatred is not a word that fits in this context. Instead, we see a deep mutual respect and admiration for the sport, coupled with a dash of friendly banter. As the old adage goes, in sports, if you can get someone to shake your hand after the match, you've won. And in the six nations rugby, everyone seems to have won.