Navigating the Unpredictable Journey: Understanding Life Skills and Their Importance

Understanding an Abnormal Life

Living! My entire life has been anything but normal! I’ve always faced challenges that differ from the norm, and now, even the simplest tasks seem insurmountable. In the 2000s, my husband was pressured by friends to push me into the workforce, but the idea of military or similarly demanding jobs was unthinkable to me. I could not even consider stepping out of my comfort zone to do what others deemed necessary for adulthood. The realization of being sub-normal in this rigid society is sobering. My journey, however, is drawing to a close, and I am relieved to leave this routine behind.

Embracing a Diverse Education in Life Skills

Since childhood, I’ve been honing my life skills, even though these crucial abilities are not often emphasized in my educational system. Traditional education in my country primarily focuses on job skills that become part of a boring routine, stifling creativity and innovation. However, the majority of people in my home country fear venturing beyond the safe, predictable paths in their leisure and free time. Activities that challenge this routine, such as sunbathing at the beach, are often seen as passive and risk-free, disregarding the importance of personal growth and skill development. I believe life is more like a mountain to climb, a journey filled with challenges and obstacles, rather than a passive beach where one remains relaxed and unchallenged.

Challenging Stereotypes through Motocross

Riding motocross isn’t an activity for the faint-hearted, but I’ve embraced this world with a passion. The community is tight-knit, and I only connect with those who share my love for the sport. Others just don’t get it, but that’s okay. Motocross has taught me resilience and the importance of community, which I value deeply.

Overcoming Social Norms and Personal Growth

On a typical evening, I was having a casual conversation with a friend when I mentioned "soy sauce" and pronounced it as "soy-ee" sauce. This small mishap highlighted a long-standing childhood issue: I consistently pronounce "soy" with an -ee sound, a habit that has persisted into adulthood. Despite being embarrassed, the freedom of not caring about what others think has allowed me to develop the confidence to persist in my habits.

Another challenge in my social life is my tendency to approach strangers. Despite being an introverted and peaceful person, my extroverted nature compels me to engage in conversations, even with strangers. I fed squirrels in a park, struck up a conversation with a stranger, and ended up being held hostage for a week. While the experience was traumatic, it has reinforced my belief in the value of connecting with others. I will continue to engage with strangers, as these interactions often lead to unique and enriching experiences.